I’m on topmomma! It’s a site that…well, I don’t even know what! But you post a picture, then people who like it click it. And if you can stay on the front page–you’re a top momma! I hardly even remember posting this picture. But I love it!
So, click here and then click on the picture of Lydia so I can be a Top Momma!
(I’m still laughing about this!)
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Remember when I did the Race for the Cure? And I briefly mentioned I got to be on TV? Ahhh, yeah! Well, I TIVOed the segment, burnt it onto a dvd but can’t seem to get it on the computer. (so, any hints would be appreciated!)
The entire segment was full of interviews on different types of women who were at the Race. She interviewed us because we were 6 daughters and 5 moms who had been affected by breast cancer. There was another segment of an older woman who had survived breast cancer. But the segment that got to me was a young mom with a little baby. She was diagnosed with breast cancer 5 months previous while she was still breastfeeding her infant son. They didn’t go into much detail in this little news segment but the girl was crying (yet strong!) when she said, “I’m only 31 years old and it can happen to anyone!”
Here we were all excited and invigorated for walking for our grandmothers and aunts, while this girl the same age as us was walking for HERSELF!
This leads me to WhyMommy. She’s a young blogger who has been diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer. It’s not discovered by monthly breast exams and a lump. It’s symptoms are similar to mastitis. (And I’ve had that twice. It is not fun!) I’ll let WhyMommy tell you about it:
We hear a lot about breast cancer these days. One in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetimes, and there are millions living with it in the U.S. today alone. But did you know that there is more than one type of breast cancer?
I didn’t. I thought that breast cancer was all the same. I figured that if I did my monthly breast self-exams, and found no lump, I’d be fine.
Oops. It turns out that you don’t have to have a lump to have breast cancer. Six weeks ago, I went to my OB/GYN because my breast felt funny. It was red, hot, inflamed, and the skin looked…funny. But there was no lump, so I wasn’t worried. I should have been. After a round of antibiotics didn’t clear up the inflammation, my doctor sent me to a breast specialist and did a skin punch biopsy. That test showed that I have inflammatory breast cancer, a very aggressive cancer that can be deadly.
Inflammatory breast cancer is often misdiagnosed as mastitis because many doctors have never seen it before and consider it rare. “Rare” or not, there are over 100,000 women in the U.S. with this cancer right now; only half will survive five years. Please call your OB/GYN if you experience several of the following symptoms in your breast, or any unusual changes: redness, rapid increase in size of one breast, persistent itching of breast or nipple, thickening of breast tissue, stabbing pain, soreness, swelling under the arm, dimpling or ridging (for example, when you take your bra off, the bra marks stay – for a while), flattening or retracting of the nipple, or a texture that looks or feels like an orange (called peau d’orange). Ask if your GYN is familiar with inflammatory breast cancer, and tell her that you’re concerned and want to come in to rule it out.
There is more than one kind of breast cancer. Inflammatory breast cancer is the most aggressive form of breast cancer out there, and early detection is critical. It’s not usually detected by mammogram. It does not usually present with a lump. It may be overlooked with all of the changes that our breasts undergo during the years when we’re pregnant and/or nursing our little ones. It’s important not to miss this one.
Inflammatory breast cancer is detected by women and their doctors who notice a change in one of their breasts. If you notice a change, call your doctor today. Tell her about it. Tell her that you have a friend with this disease, and it’s trying to kill her. Now you know what I wish I had known before six weeks ago.
You don’t have to have a lump to have breast cancer.
Wow! Can you hear it in her voice? She’s ticked. She wants to kick this cancer! And she doesn’t want it to hurt anyone else. So, she’s encouraging bloggers to post this everywhere to spread the word about inflammatory breast cancer. Now that you’re informed, feel free to let others know. And please go visit WhyMommy and encourage her by letting her know you’re praying for her!
You know how I feel about cancer. I’ve seen God heal. I’ve got the WHYMOMMY button in my sidebar because I pray for her everyday. A girl I don’t even know. But God knows her. He made her. He loves her and His desire is not for her demise but for her healing and her abundant life!
At church today our pastor spoke on the 2nd part of “Boulevard of Broken Dreams: Some Dreams Can’t Come True”. And if this stuff doesn’t make you want to read the Bible, I don’t know what will! The passage he spoke from is 2 Samuel 15-16.
King David is now older, he’s got lots of young adult children and a successful reign as king! To make an amazing and long story short, his first son (and heir to the throne) Amnon rapes his half sister Tamar. Absalom, Tamar’s brother avenges this crime by murdering Amnon. Soon, Absalom decides to take over the throne and overthrow his father’s reign.
David takes his family and his servants and LEAVES the city! He leaves! He packs it up! The priest wants to take the Ark of the Covenant, to show that God is with David. But David won’t do it. He says, “If I find favor in the LORD’s eyes, he will bring me back and let me see it and his dwelling place again. But if he says, ‘I am not pleased with you,’ then I am ready; let him do to me whatever seems good to him.” Sound familiar? Jesus said almost the same thing in the garden before he was arrested & crucified, “Not my will but yours be done!”
David had a choice. He could have stood at the gates of the palace, sword in hand and fought for his RIGHT to the throne. His God-given right, no less. But he knew that fighting, freaking out and panicking would do nothing. So, he let God sort it out. He walked away. If God wanted Him to have the throne, he’d be the king. If God wanted Absalom to be the king, that’s what would happen. David was up for either–he just wanted God’s way to come to pass.
You might know the end of the story, eventually David’s army & Absalom’s army meet in battle. Absalom begins to run away and his head gets stuck in the branches of a tree. David’s men find him and kill him. David the true king enters the city devastated that his son his dead.
What a sad story! But God’s will was done despite the disobedience and rebellion of Absalom. God’s will was done because David got out of the way. It was probably the best-case scenario because David decided not to take matters into his own hands. (as opposed to what happened last week when he took matters into his own hands!)
I kind of struggle with this story & it’s application. I know God has worked out a plan for me. I know He’s got a good plan. But after our last few bad experiences in ministry (our dream), I feel like that original dream has died. And I don’t know what the new one is. I don’t know if I should walk away like David and let our new phase of life just come to us, “if God wills it”. Or should I be seeking out what God wants? I don’t want to be the one who just says, “Well, if it’s His will…” and then waits around for 100 years.
When we have our dreams snuffed out the temptation, our pastor said, was to let this river of anger, hopelessness (or whatever) take over and to be swept away with it. I don’t want to be that way. I know what it feels like to be drug around by others and their demands. I don’t want to be taken for a ride by my own disappointments.
So, the question for you and me is how are we going to react when our dreams die? Will we fight? Will we wait on God? Will we wallow in hopelessness? Live in anger? Cower in fear? Hopefully we will lean hard into the only One who’s ever been in control.
They closed the service with this song. Apparently, this song was written after the writer and his family experienced a miscarriage.
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